I had written a post ‘Ma please hunt a groom for me‘ few months back. And now here I’m wanting to extend that post with another real life conversation… All you unmarrieds please read carefully, I might be echoing your thoughts ! 🙂 It’s a conversation between me and my cousin sistah ! Since she has almost finished her MBA and is ready to seize the world..there are talks about her marriage started in our family,like it happens in other families when a girl is all done with her education and is 23 years old !
Here is how the conversation went between us:
Me: Hey dear, hows life ?
N: Great going, hows yours ?
Me: Good !
N: I have been reading your blog quiet regularly.. but only when I go home…in the college it is blocked 😦
Me: (upset about the fact that many people can’t read my blog since it is blocked at the college or offices 😛) Oh.. is it.. 😦
N: Yeah 😦 Anyways, hey I liked your post regarding jeej !
Me: Oh which one you are talking about ?
N: The one in which you have mentioned about a little girl going to her daddy for help…etc…
Me: Oh that one… ‘Between jobs and 8 days‘ ?
N: Yes, right!!
N: I have added that point in my list.
Me: Which list ? :0
N: The list of what all should a husband possess !
Ahh.. so that was it..It left me with lot of questions in my mind… About the arranged marriage,relationships-to-be and the wants and desires of an individual from a would-be partner..How perfectly can you create a list of ‘should-haves’ when you get onto hunting a groom / bride ? What all goes into your mind while creating this list ? Is it complex or easy to define what all you expect ? Is it a sure way to get that Mr / Ms Right ? Is it important to score 100% marks on the list or an average passing is allowed ? Is this list also suitable for those who are looking for GFs / BFs ? Does it not depend a lot on your destiny as to whom you land up with for rest of your life ?
So what exactly is this LIST about ??
Is it:L-Look..I-I’m…S-Still..T-Thinking about more points to add !!!
Well, I may be limp at my basics…what’s your take ?