Was discussing this with a close friend..about women and her powers and the trauma and pains that she has to go through…sometimes she is prepared for this and sometimes it knocks her just like that !
How vulnerable a women is and yet how strong she stands behind her family ! There is a kind of thinking that we have all grown up with..a woman has to compromise in all cases..no matter how educated she is or how much she earns or how beautiful she looks or comes from an established family or how decent she is…whatever good characteristics she posses are taken as ‘so what,she ought to posses them anyway !’
Of course, I’m talking about a woman’s state generally ..there are families and specially husbands,today, who understand what a woman is and give her the due respect and credits…
But even after that there are some-things that a woman has to adjust to….and tell me who likes to adjust any way ? No one wants to give away their own thoughts or their identity or the freedom that they have been brought up with..and why should one,really ?
And then I look at the other side..that yes why not…only woman has the power to do that..to understand to love and to give…we have immense powers within…like I mentioned in my last post..woman can break or make..our history has loads of proofs…’Ramayan’ happened only because of a woman…
I remember Abhishek Bacchan’s dailogue from the movie ‘Hum-Tum’..he says it to Saif Ali Khan:
‘Woh humse yahan [showing the biceps] bhale hi kamjor ho par yahan [pointing towards heart] humse jyada strong hoti hai ! women might not be as strong physically as we men are but these are very strong at heart..more than us !
Which is so true !
So instead of taking this as a bane we should take it as a boon that we are able to adjust and turn things the way we want to…that’s the only way we can be happy and keep others happy..No,but that doesn’t mean that women should compromise to an extent to lose their individuality,never ! But if minor changes here and there makes a big difference to the family set-up then why not !
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