You know when I was a kid in bachpan me and my friends used to think that love and all is a bad thing to happen / do. One of our seniors in school got caught with a so-called love letter in her pocket and of course the name of the guy was mentioned so both these lovers were punished-they were hardly in 8the grade. This made us friends more scared of the word love and the impression of falling in love became a crime at that time.Sadly !
Somehow in our society we are used to unknowingly misunderstand the ‘love’ which happens between a girl friend-boy friend. No,nobody came and told us that it is a bad thing or it’s wrong to indulge in it in when you’re in your school days et al. But we tend to get this feeling that it’s not correct. Where as we were never shooed away from saying ‘ma,I love you’ or ‘daddy,I love you’ et al. So love was accepted but in certain form. But today’s kids are being taken in to commercials to say ‘I love you’ to a class mate or so. The latest Ariel commercial shows the same thing-though without actually pointing that “love is alright at your age kids“
Recently,at my work place the administration caught two employee getting involved ‘wrongly’ in a corner of the loo.Our general reaction to this was-“guys get a room,why spoil your image at office”. But we didn’t think in the manner -“Haww,they did this? They fell in love? Oh o !”
So,we are now grown-ups and we’ve understood that love happens and that’s not a crime ! Again, no one came and taught this to us… oh,the couple ? they got expelled of course !
When we hear from someone that they are couple who fell in love at first sight we feel “oooohhh,how sweet..”. But generally,the view of falling in love at first sight is not a very acceptable idea by most the of junta.People call it as puppy love which happens to a slight immature people around..true ?what’s your view ?
Love is such a vague entity.It’s a bit risky as well..you get entangled with each other…yes no body teaches us about love..nobody tells us whom to fall in love with….when to fall in love with..it just happens…and we just need to let it happen…really ? I’ve seen people who first make sure of the caste and then confirm their feelings for the other person,there thought-“why take chances and let parents fuss over the caste thing ?” And yet people fall in love with the ones from other caste…Such is love and yet it is so beautiful 🙂