“There comes this phase,I feel blank and nothing is visible…don’t know what to do”
How easily we use the word ‘blank’ for the state of our lives…do we really know the meaning of being blank ? May be a blank paper ? A blank black/white board ? Blank in the examination? What else ? What do we really mean when we say ‘blankness’ ??
Have we ever thought that blind people have a blank life all the way ?People who are homeless..family less ? Ain’t their life a blankness in actual terms ? No,I’m not asking to lend some sympathies for those who are blind/poor around you…all I want to say is they really mean what being ‘blank’ in life is…we just need to be grateful that our lives are not made blank by the almighty !
We MUST cherish our lives…the people in it..that we are blessed to have family and friends around us…to bank on whenever we need to..
I hate it when people keep comparing their lives with others’ and say causally that their’s is a blank life ! After all others’ life is not a yardstick for you…you have to live your own life and on your terms and choose the paths that suit your pocket,mind and family ! Why crib ? I know there are few things in life that make you really think ‘why it had to happen to me?’ OR a ‘why can’t I have what I want like others have?’…but to that there’s only one solution..work towards it rather than sitting and cribbing and making useless comparisons…blaming your destiny and calling your life blank !!!
I’ve heard from an elder in the family…“samay se pehle aur bhagya se jyada kisi ko kuch nahi milta” !!
So,chill and try to make yourself happy..strive but don’t put yourself under pressures..don’t call your life as blank again ! It has so many colors that you can see and they are so many other things that you can be happy about…start living !!