Helplessness is

when you see your friend crying or that he/she is in trouble and you know you can’t do much to ease her pain…specially when she/he is miles away from you…

when you see a baby play on the a dirty ground while the mother is working on a construction site and you just stand still feeling upset about the baby’s condition…

when you are editing some image by following some tutorial and the link goes away… don’t even remember the tutorial link or haven’t bookmarked it 😐 [okay in this case run to Piyu πŸ˜‰]

when you want to explain that you meant something else where as the other person understood something else…and the person is reluctant to not listen to you..ever !

when you are on the mission to lose those extra kilos which are stuck all over your body and you’re being treated with chocolates and ice-creams and all the sinning stuff in the world !!! [okay this ones a very common helplessness !]

when you’re in a class and a very strict teacher is at the other side..your friend cracks a joke and everyone but you don’t know how to hide the smile on your face !

when you realize that you will be reaching to the other side of the 30,even if you think that you’ve stopped growing after 21,and before you settle down with the idea the kids in the locality start calling you aunty…. [no the “aunty mat kaho na” doesn’t work these days..the kids are too smart]

when you decide that you’ll not buy any more books before you finish the unread stock at home..your fellow bloggers do a review on books and rate them 5 !!

leaving you with a COSBY SHOW’s video which actually tells you what is Β helplessness..enjoy..yes enjoy the helplessness of this man…


44 thoughts on “Helplessness is

  1. I think I told u I dnt login on weekends na πŸ˜› So, reading this today πŸ™‚
    Am arnd on all blogs when I am arnd πŸ™‚
    Infact, did nt see u on last 2 posts of mine πŸ˜‰

  2. when you want to explain that you meant something else where as the other person understood something else…and the person is reluctant to not listen to you..ever ! – sigh! I hate this 😦 😦

  3. A very nice post. Helplessness is so such an engulfing emotion and I’ve felt it a lot of times. Suppressing laughter in a class is very difficult. I’ve a friend who keeps cracking jokes even during class hours and keeps everyone around him in splits. Sitting beside him means inviting danger πŸ˜€ Same thing with me too regarding books. There are lots of them lying unread and even then, when I see a good one around, I can’t stop myself from buying it.

  4. the video was nice ..

    and helplessness yeppp thats what it is when you want ot do something and cant do anything .. I wonder sometimes how to get over that .. why dont we just go and pick that child playing in dirt, or why dont we just give a hearty laugh in the class and the teacher instead of beating us up has a laugh with us …

    Wonder if such days will come πŸ™‚

  5. I have seen that video before and so glad that you also posted it.

    I agree with all the points of helplessness.

    Let me add some more here:

    When you want to badly pee and the bus is on the highway racing!

    When you have seen a movie and the climax is something your friend does not know but she expects something else and you know what it is!!

    When you are reading your favourite blogger’s post but the current goes off and the UPS has no battery power.

    When you want to fart aloud but you are sitting right in the middle of an interesting poetry class about love and dreams!

    Thanks for this Nu.

    Joy always,

  6. 1,2 and 4 cases are really sad :(.. hugs Nu !

    We all have cases of 4,5 and 6.. well to be frank for case 5, I am the friend who has told the joke and can keep a straight face πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰

    The video is damn funny πŸ˜€

    1. you’re right…sad moments do creep in too in life 😐

      you’re that friend ??? :grrrrr: I can sympathize with your fellow classmates !

  7. Nice! πŸ˜€ I know man, esp the fitness bit! I start gymming and my mom gets me a 100 chocolates! Argh!
    And Helpness, accompanied by Murphy’s laws, spells high level disaster!

  8. Oh god! The smile hiding bit! It’s SO hard. Always happens during meetings! Someone scribbles something on a paper and I cannot stop grinning like an idiot! Seriously helpless!
    That was a pretty cool post, btw! πŸ™‚

  9. OMG !!!! That video is damn gud…am LOLing so much, Nu. Thanks for putting it up. πŸ˜†

    Loved the way you’ve put up the list – its true, we are helpless sometimes, when we dont know what to do.

    I was at the height of helplessness, when I couldn’t login to my blog account for some days, owing to guests at home.

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