How dependant are you on your spouse? Okay let me ask this first.
Do you like to be called dependant on your spouse at all?
Is there anything wrong on being dependant [emotionally & financially-both or either] on your spouse and/or accepting that in public?
I get a stare or a shake of head when I commit to the fact that I’m emotionally dependant on H.
There could be lot of friends that I have who are close to me but finally it’s H whom I need to lean my head on and express what’s bothering me or upsetting me. I need him badly to take me out of this whinning mode and cheer me up. Of course there are special friends in life with whom a quick chat/talk peps me up but no one can replace what H can do to my moods and the way he can soothe me and pep me up or even share the moments of happiness with me.
So there! Even if there are people who think that being emotionally and/or financially dependant on your husband is not the in-thing in today’s world, so be it ! Who cares what fashion or trend dictates these days? I know what I want from life and I’m getting it so who are you miss/mister to judge whether I’m going in the right direction or not?
Today,I know H for 10 years and he is my best friend. And we both are happy the way our relationship has shaped up. And now that I’m a full time home maker I don’t mind calling myself dependant on him financially too.
Why people have to judge others according to their standards? huh !Total time pass people these are,I’m telling you !