I don’t understand why people chose to stay silent when something goes wrong in their heads regarding other person. In any relationship there bound to be differences and some fights here and there but what I’d rather people tell on your face that this is what I disliked or this is what I don’t want you to do in future or you and me and not meant to be friends so let’s call it quits.
I know this might not be that simple for lot of people out there but by keeping silence and withdrawing without letting the other person know what actually went wrong makes it all the more difficult and I also feel that it erases the chances of coming together once again in future,if at all there could by any chance that is! It hurts the other person but I guess it also hurts the one who chooses to keep mum on the matter,too!
Talk it out and clear it-it not only helps to clear your mind with the clutter of thoughts but it might also result in clearing the misconceptions between people involved.
At least for the old time’s sake I think one should consider speaking up and letting the curtain raise instead of hiding behind it and most probably sulking and cribbing about what happened !!!
We here in so many Bollywood flicks that the time doesn’t come again to you. There is a lot in our hearts to say to people around us and we keep putting it on some other day to tell people how much we care / love. Likewise, it’s definitely a good strategy to say it out then and there and let the fire extinguish.
I would certainly want any such chapter of my life to close tidily and move ahead in life with no regrets and clean heart…so that few years down the line when I meet the person I’ll be in a condition to smile at him/her if not sit and chat!!!!