I’ve observed that when I’m upset / confused with certain situation, I like to do certain things to escape that irritation,like:
- chatting to BFFs
- reading books / blogs
- watching movie
- random shopping
- just being silent and alone
- going for a drive
- hogging on a bar of chocolate or tub of ice-cream
and the likes..
but today I discovered that when I talk to someone who is very very upset with his/her own life or situations in it and is cribbing non-stop leaning on my shoulders,I feel much much better ! Don’t get me wrong..I’m certainly not happy that the other person is in trouble / bad mood..what makes me happy is that someone too is rowing the boat of irritation and that I’ve a company…and while you start giving gyaan and consoling the other person you,for that moment at least,forget your pain or sometime get an answer to your never-ending questions 🙂 and then you have heard so many times..’that’s what friends are for’…to share the load of rowing 😉
It takes two to tango,does it not? So,it takes two negatives to make it all positive 😉 How’s that !!!!!!