I’ve been into blogging since 5 years now and this is the 6th year running. All these years apart from having made very good friends, got a lot to learn and developed a certain amount of inclination toward writing there is one more thing that has come to me and that is constant judgement!
When you write publicly this is bound to happen.Blogging is nothing but kind of public forum where one write what one wants and the readers comment to their heart’s content. Needless to mention there are different souls around with different thought process and hence what one thinks is pink the other might think it is magenta,getting my point? There is nothing wrong in disagreeing but along with disagreeing judging the other person and his/her intentions is something I don’t agree!
To cut a long story short here are few things that I want to state via this post,of course you’re free to disagree 🙂
~This is my space and what all I write is my choice.
~If I have to write according to the likes of the readers then what’s the point in publicly writing my views? Won’t it be like pretending to be someone when I’m not actually that?
~If I write on some issue,may be at that time I’ve thought just that much and vented it out here and on second thoughts I might as well feel to add modify delete something of the post. But that is human ain’t it? It happens with all of us,no?
~Even if after the second thought too my opinion remains the same,so be it! I repeat,this is my space and I will write what I feel is right,okay?
~I’m not aware of any ‘rule’ that says I have to think through deeply on every thing I’ll be writing here and then finally hit that publish button. If there is such a rule, I don’t care!
~All I’m saying is you can disagree with what I’ve written and you can very much express your views here but I’ve not given you any right to judge me as a person. You probably don’t even know me and just by reading my blog you cannot possibly tell what kind of a person I’m or can you?
~Moreover if what I write irks you so much, I guess you already know what you should be doing!
~I blog because it gives me a way to put across my thoughts, lets me record my life in a nut shell and it gives me a kind of space that I consider totally mine where I’m free to express! So that means I don’t blog because I want 100s and 1000s of readers to come to my blog and comment and like my posts. which is any way not happening 😉 so you can see!
~I never claim that I’m a perfect writer or something of that sort so there is a huge possibility that what I want to convey might not get properly contained in the words I choose to express. So there!
~Whatever it is,this is who I’m! It’s better that we don’t expect each other to change for our pleasure.
I don’t know even after this post if I’m making some point there. But I guess I’ve written pretty much clearly ! No hard feelings toward anyone. Keep writing,commenting and let’s peacefully co exist in this blogging world,yeah?