I might be some 8 years old when ‘Ashiqui’ got released.Now is 2010 and the songs still do the jig and cause that sweet heart ache when you listen to them.I’m sure even the least romantic person can also be moved with these songs.
Another sets of songs I love personally are from the movie ‘Dil hai ki manta nahi’ and ‘Phir teri kahani yaad aayi’…I won’t say those were days of songs and music…because it would be unfair to the older music and some newer music that is really good…and moreover the days have not passed..the music is still alive in our hearts and whenever we want we can tune into these songs…
Radio Mirchi has this old songs slot in the night and 90s not out..and yeah Cassette classics..I like all these segments a lot ! These songs do something to my mood.Some kind of uplift-ment…they are just so wow…And these slots bring back these songs which we might have kept aside on our hard-disks or CDs..and forget to listen…songs like ‘chehra kya dekhte ho..’ sounds good now..may be after so many years they sound good and we feel a novelty in them…
There is something or the other which really swings your mood to a lighter note..something that freshens you up..that turns your mood on..for me it’s music and dancing…and shopping…in the same order…what’s your turn on ? 🙂
Often you come across people who want to like to dominate in whichever way they can. Dominate their friends or spouse or siblings.Whosoever they come across. Because that’s what flows in their blood.
There are fixed rules of life that catch you sometime or the other with it’s both hands for sure..
Ironically, these are the rules you cannot break ! But you can certainly follow some rules like these without wanting to break them 🙂 Though the 5th one seems a bit filmy 😛 But cute that !
THE blog world.So many blogs and authors around. Some are your friends and some become your friends in the blogging process. The question that comes to my mind [yeah lot of questions in mind these days :P] why do you read someone’s blog ?
As for me here’s why I read the blogs that I read:
Over a period of time blogging has become vital to my routine.I started to blog because I was very emotional the other day [about the end of the MBA course and departures] and thought that the blog would be a good way of venting it all out of my system. That day I didn’t think that I would read so many other blogs or have so many great pals here or would have so many readers. I never thought in this manner and yet reached to level that I’m so happy blogging and now whatever I do or see the first thing that comes to my mind is ‘I’ll put it on my blog’ ! It’s the joy of sharing things with you people..and the medium to express my thoughts is what I love about blogging the most.
Okay this remind me of something that someone told me few days back. It was lingering in mind since then and I really wanted to take it out then and there but thought to let it settle down a bit.Yes, I don’t want it to be a big issue but as said earlier..I can’t forget !
“My posts are not worth commenting.Meaning there is nothing to comment on my posts except ‘nice’,’wow’..etc.’ and this is not what the commenter wants to type in and hence doesn’t comment.”
But the person claims to read all my posts.Okay not an issue. My only query is Don’t I have any such post which is eligible for more than a ‘wow’ or a ‘nice’…really ? You are my readers and quiet regular at that…why don’t you judge and tell me !
I’ve heard from lot of friends that one should not be as open to the husband as you would be to a friend. I ask why ?
The answers I get are something like these:
Every person has a best friend in life..sometime or the other. Some have the privilege of having friends as long as their existence in this world..right from the kindergarten days to family making days…or may be some that you come across in your teenage days and then these friends stick with you through the thick and thin no matter where you are or what you are…the friendship matures..the friends who are in touch even in old age…you may get really close in your old age too..making friends in old age is a possibility 🙂
As the rule of life there are very few people who stick to one place,city,house for longer years..why I say as a rule of life since transfers,promotions,job change and the likes don’t let you stick to one place for long…as a result you change schools, you change cities, you change companies or you get married and shift bases and hence you change your friends too..no matter how bold promises we make to our old friends that ‘we’ll be in touch‘ and ‘we would at least meet up once a year‘ etc etc…we do tend to keep the promises back of our mind not necessarily forget !
Specially, when we are parting our ways at the end of the college we get so much sentimental so that we sing friendship songs..we cry,write slam books..exchange gifts..photographs..parties…get-tos and all possible things under the sky which would let us meet our friends once more…before the d-day comes when the departure actually takes place…
Finally you land up in your job and slowly but steadily the new life takes a toll on you takes over your emotions and promises..basically the old person in you and you’re left with the new life and new friends…which is good and you’re enjoying…but unknowingly you leave the old friends behind and sometimes when you remember those good old days you realize how things have changed….how many days have passed by that you haven’t called your buddy from college…of course there are exceptions…but whatever my experience and observation says the friends who land in the same city are the only ones to maintain that bond otherwise most of the times the dynamics change..
How does it all happen?? Do we do it on purpose ? Not at all..why would someone on purpose ignore the best of the friend from college ? But it still happens..and that’s the right time to test the mettle of your relationship…in hard times is when you come to know who really loves you !
When in college or in school or in some organization…when you meet daily.. sometimes 3 times a day and talk on phone almost every hour you are well connected to the person and of course he or she is the closest one that you share your things with…and the relationship is tagged as ‘best friendship’…but the real test is when you are away…out of sight..not meeting for years…only connected to through emails and phone calls-which are also a bit irregular…do you feel the same connection ? The same comfort of sharing anything and everything with the person ?
There are no guaranteed tests that you can put your friends through..but there are certain things which we all need to note…